Grief Counselling

Grief isn't something to "get over." It's something to carry – and you don't have to carry it alone.

Whether you've lost someone you love, ended a relationship that mattered, or are grieving the life you thought you'd have – grief shows up in ways we don't expect.

It's not linear. It's not tidy. And it's definitely not something you need to "fix."

But it is something you deserve support with.

How I Can Help

I won't tell you it's time to move on. I won't rush your healing. We'll simply be with your grief – and find ways to carry it that don't break you.

Together, we might:

  • Use narrative therapy to honor your story and the person or thing you've lost

  • Practice gentle mindfulness to ground you when grief feels overwhelming

  • Explore meaning-making – not to "find the silver lining," but to help you integrate this loss into your life

What You Might Notice

As we work together:

  • You give yourself permission to grieve in your own way

  • The waves of grief become less frequent, or less overwhelming

  • You find moments of peace without guilt

  • You start to reconnect with life – at your pace

Frequently asked questions

How is this different from other counselling?

Grief counselling isn't about "fixing" you – because you're not broken. It's about creating space for your loss while helping you find a way forward that honors what you've lost. There's no timeline, no agenda, just presence.

How long does grief counselling take?

Grief doesn't follow a schedule. Some people come for a few sessions to get through a hard patch. Others appreciate longer-term support. We'll go at whatever pace feels right to you.

Do I have to talk about the person I lost?

Only as much as you want to. Some sessions we'll talk about them. Some sessions we'll talk about you. Some sessions we might just sit with silence. This space is yours.

What if I'm grieving something other than a death?

Grief is grief – whether it's a person, a relationship, a version of yourself, or a future you thought you'd have. You're welcome here.

Ready to honor your journey?

You don't have to figure this out alone. Let's find a time to talk.

Need immediate support?

If you're in crisis right now, please reach out to:

  • SADAG (South African Depression and Anxiety Group): 0800 567 567

  • LifeLine: 0861 322 322

  • Emergency Services: 10111

You matter. And sometimes we all need immediate help. That's okay.

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BA in Social Science Majors in Psychology and Counseling (SACAP)

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